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Sometimes I feel like joking is meant to cut the tension, but really the tension is just with myself. I also think that speaking to you and doing other things, meaning touching you, grabbing you, looking you in the eyes, helps me right? Like if I were to say something dirty in bed, I always think about how I try to make eye contact with you. So what you’re saying is, you were drawn to my personality.

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• First, openly communicate with your partner about your desires and why you’d like to begin the practice.
• Mix up a few different approaches and see what works best.
• If you love how their skin feels or you enjoy the way they sound in bed, that will help you with things to say while sexting.
• In the era of social-distancing, words have become one of our best replacements for physical intimacy.
• So how do you strike a balance between PornHub and theater-kid energy?
• The distance in a long-distance relationship is sometimes a bit too long.

As a bonus, she also links out to other sex bloggers, some of which do audio erotica too (such as On Queer Street). Talking dirty is hot in and of itself, and it’s also great for your sex life. It helps you stay more present in the moment, and more tuned in to what you’re experiencing. It helps you develop more sexual self-confidence. It helps your partner learn what you like, and lowers their performance anxiety.

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But today we’re gonna be talking about dirty talk. And before we dive in, and I wanna share, I don’t know fifty, a hundred different dirty talk lines, and try them out and we can practice them. For better or worse, women have had magazine upon magazine (and limitless porn videos) teach us how to sound sexy in bed, and boy oh boy do we understand the value of it.

Start slowly, use different methods of communication and pay attention to what’s working for both you and your lover. And when you get so good at it you write a best-selling erotic novel, be sure to thank PureWow on the dedication page, you spicy creative, you. We know communication is the bedrock of any success romantic relationship, and that includes how we communicate our needs and desires in the bedroom.

Knowing what excites each other and the limits sets a comfortable and healthy foundation,” she suggests. For those who are a little shy, playing character roles that align with your greatest fantasies might make talking dirty a little less uncomfortable. Now, we’re not saying you need to dive headfirst into BDSM.

Because you’re doing one thing you know I like and then if the dirty talk doesn’t land, no I’m serious. Because in all the years that we’ve lived here, and we’ve lived here a long time, I don’t think I’ve ever heard anybody else having sex. So maybe people just don’t have sex here. Check out The Ultimate Guide to Seduction and Foreplay co-authored by Marla Renee Stewart.

• Maybe you like to be nasty or filthy on occasion, or maybe you like to be told you’re soft and sweet (hey, you can be both!).
• It’s just that if that moment, where I really am immersed, could be ten percent.
• “Planned phrases can be useful in the beginning when you don’t know what to say,” advises Cook.
• There’s no need to think about anything detailed or complex.

And another piece that Marla reminded me of is that so many people get turned on by recalling sexual memories. You can also play with dirty talk with that whole like “remember that time on the beach, when…” Or “I want to go back to that theatre where we snuck into the back row. “Spread your legs for me like your body is mine tonight,” or “you better do what I say or I’m not going to give it to you.” Or I might say you know, “I’m in charge. So you’re going to do what I want.” Or I might say, “be good and go get me my boots,” or I might say “do this now, or I’m not gonna let you finish but if you’re good.” Oh I can’t even say this for everyone right now.

And you have to work twice as hard to keep the spark alive. You send gifts to each other, listen to your partner’s rant about their crappy boss or problems with parents. Why not describe intimacy in a public place or under the stars on the beach? Don’t forget the little details add a lot to the experience. Compliments during dirty talk can be about their appearance, what they’re wearing, what they’re doing or even how they’re reacting. Mix up a few different approaches and see what works best.

Does the thought of your partner saying, « talk dirty to me » send you into a panic? You’re not alone if the prospect of dirty talk (beyond « yes » and miscellaneous moans) makes you feel awkward. Then when it’s time for action, remember that this is dirty talk, not dirty act-out. Start by laying out your pre-planned scenario. Like, “I’m going to give you an exam. Now I’m putting my fingers on your…” You can take it from there.

But feedback is another way of sharing what you’re feeling in the moment. Describing a positive past experience between you and your partner is a great way to start dirty talk. Describe how you felt, what they did, what you want to do again.